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UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person

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Assumption: "(Solicitor Letters) Only the solicitor makes offers, so my proposals don't matter."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People think only represented parties make formal offers.

Court Reality

The court looks at open offers from either party when considering conduct and costs (PD 28A para 4.4; PD 9A pre-application protocol para 25). Your own open proposals put your position on record.

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The Gap?

"(Solicitor Letters) Only the solicitor makes offers, so my proposals don't matter."

Court Reality

The court looks at open offers from either party when considering conduct and costs (PD 28A para 4.4; PD 9A pre-application protocol para 25). Your own open proposals put your position on record.

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Published23 September 2026Last reviewed23 September 2026

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