Looking for help in your family court proceedings?Bridge The Gap is a free, community-built guide to UK family court, written by litigants and McKenzie Friends, for litigants. Real observations, plain English, and people who can help.
The UK family court, explained for litigants in person.
If you are navigating the family court without a solicitor, you are a "litigant in person." This page breaks down what the court does, the types of cases it handles, what to expect, and where to find support — in plain English.
What is the family court?
The family court is the part of the justice system that deals with disputes about families — including arrangements for children, finances after separation, and protection from harm. In England and Wales, family law is governed by the Family Procedure Rules (FPR), which set out how cases must be conducted.
You do not need a solicitor to use the family court. Many people represent themselves — known as being a "litigant in person." But the process, the forms, and the hearings can be daunting without support and preparation. That is the gap Bridge The Gap exists to bridge.
What the family court deals with
Child Arrangements
Decisions about where children live and who they spend time with — formerly "residence" and "contact".
Financial Remedy
How assets, property, and pensions are divided after separation or divorce.
Non-Molestation & Occupation
Protective orders to prevent harm and regulate who can live in the family home.
Fact-Finding Hearings
Separate hearings to establish whether specific allegations of fact are true.
What you actually need to know
Most people represent themselves
Over a third of family court cases now involve at least one litigant in person. You are not unusual — and you are not alone.
The court decides on evidence
Judges weigh documents, timelines, and witness statements. Feeling wronged is not enough — preparation is what shifts outcomes.
Delays are procedural, not personal
The family court is chronically under-resourced. Long waits almost always reflect the system, not your case.
You can bring a McKenzie Friend
A trained lay person can sit beside you, take notes, and quietly support you — you do not have to face it alone.
How a family court case unfolds
Every case is different, but most follow a similar shape. Knowing what comes next helps you prepare.
Starting the case
Cases begin with specific court forms — C100 for child arrangements, Form A for finances. Fees apply unless you qualify for help.
First hearing (FDA / FHDRA)
The first appointment sets directions — what evidence, reports, and statements are needed before a final decision.
Evidence gathering
This is where preparation matters most. Position statements, financial disclosure, and witness evidence are built up over weeks or months.
Final hearing
The court hears all the evidence and makes a binding decision. Many cases settle before reaching this stage.
How long does it take?
Child arrangement cases can take 6–12 months or longer. Financial remedy cases often take 9–18 months. Delays are common and usually procedural — they do not mean you are losing.
This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
Where to go next
Official resources and community support for your journey.
GOV.UK — Family Court
Official guidance on making an application and the court process.
Family Procedure Rules
The full rules governing how family cases are conducted in England and Wales.
Support Through Court
Free, practical support for people facing court without a lawyer.
What is a McKenzie Friend?
How a trained lay person can support you through your hearing.