UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 107

Assumption: "My ex's behaviour was terrible during the marriage. The court will take that into account in the financial settlement."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

Misconduct during the marriage — financial, emotional, or behavioural — will be reflected in how assets are divided by the court.

Court Reality

Misconduct may only be taken into account if it is deemed 'inequitable to disregard.’ This threshold can be high, and the court primarily focuses on asset division rather than moral judgment.

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The Gap?

"My ex's behaviour was terrible during the marriage. The court will take that into account in the financial settlement."

Court Reality

Misconduct may only be taken into account if it is deemed 'inequitable to disregard.’ This threshold can be high, and the court primarily focuses on asset division rather than moral judgment.

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Published7 June 2026Last reviewed31 August 2026

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