UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 67

Assumption: "If I keep asking what they want, we'll reach agreement."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

Frequent communication and asking the other party what they want will help move towards a settlement.

Court Reality

Formally communicating positions is more productive than informal inquiries; repeated informal contact can be counterproductive.

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The Gap?

"If I keep asking what they want, we'll reach agreement."

Court Reality

Formally communicating positions is more productive than informal inquiries; repeated informal contact can be counterproductive.

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Published3 June 2026Last reviewed31 August 2026

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