UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 63

Assumption: "In the best interests of the child means what the child says they want."

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What People Expect

The best interests of the child test means the court will simply do whatever the child says they want.

Court Reality

The court’s determination of a child's best interests typically involves multiple factors, including the child's wishes, while retaining the authority to make the final decision.

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The Gap?

"In the best interests of the child means what the child says they want."

Court Reality

The court’s determination of a child's best interests typically involves multiple factors, including the child's wishes, while retaining the authority to make the final decision.

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Published31 May 2026Last reviewed31 August 2026

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