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A verbal agreement about property or finances is not legally binding in family proceedings. Without a court order (a consent order sealed by the court), either party can change their mind and the court will treat the assets as undecided. Even a written agreement between you is not final until the court makes it an order. If you reach an agreement, get it drafted into a consent order and approved by the court — otherwise it can unravel.
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A verbal agreement isn't binding. Get a consent order.
A verbal agreement between you and your ex about how to split the house is legally binding.
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A verbal agreement about property or finances is not legally binding in family proceedings. Without a court order (a consent order sealed by the court), either party can change their mind and the court will treat the assets as undecided.
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