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Assumption: "Representing yourself at FDR will cost you more than settling beforehand."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

Court Reality

If you're already a LIP, attending FDR doesn't add significant cost — the court fee is already paid and you're not paying a solicitor for the day. Getting the judge's indicative opinion on the other side's proposal is often the most valuable free legal guidance a LIP will get in their entire case.

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"Representing yourself at FDR will cost you more than settling beforehand."

Court Reality

If you're already a LIP, attending FDR doesn't add significant cost — the court fee is already paid and you're not paying a solicitor for the day.

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Published12 October 2026Last reviewed12 October 2026

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