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Assumption: "If negotiations are ongoing, you can just cancel your FDR hearing yourself."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
Court Reality
You can't simply cancel a court appointment because you're still talking. You either reach a full settlement and file a consent order, or you apply to the court to vacate the hearing — and the court decides, not you. Assuming it's cancelled and not attending means the hearing goes ahead without you.
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"If negotiations are ongoing, you can just cancel your FDR hearing yourself."
Court Reality
You can't simply cancel a court appointment because you're still talking. You either reach a full settlement and file a consent order, or you apply to the court to vacate the hearing — and the court decides, not you.
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