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Assumption: "If the other side's solicitor threatens costs or deadlines in their letter, you have to comply or face consequences."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
Court Reality
'Lines of threat' — especially costs threats with arbitrary deadlines — are negotiation tactics, not enforceable orders. A solicitor cannot unilaterally impose a costs order; only the court can, and only after a process. Many litigants in person settle or win after ignoring these pressure tactics.
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"If the other side's solicitor threatens costs or deadlines in their letter, you have to comply or face consequences."
Court Reality
'Lines of threat' — especially costs threats with arbitrary deadlines — are negotiation tactics, not enforceable orders. A solicitor cannot unilaterally impose a costs order; only the court can, and only after a process.
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