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Litigants often assume that expressing a wish to stay in the family home is enough for the court to allow it.
The court will ask whether you can pay the mortgage and run the home on your own income. A mortgage quote in your own name is the quickest way to find out, and it is often the first thing a litigant in person should get.
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The Gap?
"Keeping the house is automatically possible if you want it."
Court Reality
The court will ask whether you can pay the mortgage and run the home on your own income. A mortgage quote in your own name is the quickest way to find out, and it is often the first thing a litigant in person should get.
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