UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 505

Assumption: "Children are only victims of domestic abuse if they are physically hurt."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

Harm is often judged only by physical injury or by whether a child remembers what happened.

Court Reality

Practice Direction 12J recognises that children can be harmed by living in a home where domestic abuse happens, including by witnessing it, even where they are too young to understand what is happening. Courts must consider this in cases where domestic abuse is raised.

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The Gap?

"Children are only victims of domestic abuse if they are physically hurt."

Court Reality

Practice Direction 12J recognises that children can be harmed by living in a home where domestic abuse happens, including by witnessing it, even where they are too young to understand what is happening. Courts must consider this in cases where domestic abuse is raised.

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Published9 October 2026Last reviewed9 October 2026

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