Assumption: "(Evidence) If I explain I was provoked, the court will understand why I reacted the way I did."
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What People Expect
Parents expect the court to accept that an angry reaction was justified if the other side or a professional provoked it.
Court Reality
The court is assessing risk, not deciding who started it. Telling the court that aggression is a natural response, or that intimidating language was appropriate, can suggest you would react the same way again, including in front of your child. Acknowledging the behaviour and showing how you now handle frustration is usually more persuasive.
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The Gap?
"(Evidence) If I explain I was provoked, the court will understand why I reacted the way I did."
Court Reality
The court is assessing risk, not deciding who started it. Telling the court that aggression is a natural response, or that intimidating language was appropriate, can suggest you would react the same way again, including in front of your child. Acknowledging the behaviour and showing how you now handle frustration is usually more persuasive.
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