UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 465

Assumption: "The judge will choose one parent's plan exactly as written."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

Parents often assume the court must pick either their proposal or the other parent's, with no changes.

Court Reality

The court can adjust the arrangements to suit the child, including giving more time than either parent offered.

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The Gap?

"The judge will choose one parent's plan exactly as written."

Court Reality

The court can adjust the arrangements to suit the child, including giving more time than either parent offered.

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Published30 September 2026Last reviewed30 September 2026

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