Assumption: "Domestic abuse ends when the parents separate."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
What People Expect
Many parents assume that once the relationship is over, the domestic abuse is in the past and no longer relevant to child arrangements.
Court Reality
Courts increasingly recognise that coercive and controlling dynamics can continue after separation. Disputes over phones, school matters, unilateral decisions and communication, viewed collectively, may form a pattern that continues to undermine the other parent's ability to parent effectively. Post-separation abuse is assessed as part of the wider welfare picture.
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The Gap?
"Domestic abuse ends when the parents separate."
Court Reality
Courts increasingly recognise that coercive and controlling dynamics can continue after separation. Disputes over phones, school matters, unilateral decisions and communication, viewed collectively, may form a pattern that continues to undermine the other parent's ability to parent effectively. Post-separation abuse is assessed as part of the wider welfare picture.
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