UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 433

Assumption: "(Child Arrangements) My child wants things to stay the same, so they will."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People think a child's stated wishes will decide the outcome.

Court Reality

A child's wishes and feelings are one factor in the welfare checklist. In a 2026 appeal, the wishes of a primary school age child to keep shared care were not decisive against the professional evidence about the harm the conflict was causing.

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The Gap?

"(Child Arrangements) My child wants things to stay the same, so they will."

Court Reality

A child's wishes and feelings are one factor in the welfare checklist. In a 2026 appeal, the wishes of a primary school age child to keep shared care were not decisive against the professional evidence about the harm the conflict was causing.

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Published26 September 2026Last reviewed26 September 2026

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