Assumption: "(Court orders) Every line in my order means the same thing: do it or else."
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What People Expect
People read their child arrangements order as one block of rules and assume every term carries the same weight.
Court Reality
The exact wording matters. A term saying a parent is "expected" to do something has its ordinary meaning and allows some flexibility if relevant matters arise. A term saying a parent "must" or "shall" do something is mandatory, and not doing it is a breach. Read each line and notice which words the court used.
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The Gap?
"(Court orders) Every line in my order means the same thing: do it or else."
Court Reality
The exact wording matters. A term saying a parent is "expected" to do something has its ordinary meaning and allows some flexibility if relevant matters arise. A term saying a parent "must" or "shall" do something is mandatory, and not doing it is a breach. Read each line and notice which words the court used.
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