Assumption: "(Domestic Abuse Findings) We have separated, so the abuse cannot happen again and contact is safe."
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What People Expect
People think the end of the relationship removes the risk.
Court Reality
Under Practice Direction 12J, the court must be satisfied that the child and the parent they live with can be kept physically and emotionally safe before, during and after contact. In a 2026 case, the judge was not persuaded the case law treats the end of a relationship as necessarily protective.
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The Gap?
"(Domestic Abuse Findings) We have separated, so the abuse cannot happen again and contact is safe."
Court Reality
Under Practice Direction 12J, the court must be satisfied that the child and the parent they live with can be kept physically and emotionally safe before, during and after contact. In a 2026 case, the judge was not persuaded the case law treats the end of a relationship as necessarily protective.
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