UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 409

Assumption: "(Solicitor Letters) I have to reply today, and I can't ask for more time."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People feel pressured into replying immediately.

Court Reality

Only a court order sets a binding deadline. You can ask for more time in writing and say when you will reply, which puts your position on record. The joint guidelines also note that lawyers need time to take their own client's instructions before they reply. Rules and orders differ here: check whether the date comes from the letter or from your order.

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The Gap?

"(Solicitor Letters) I have to reply today, and I can't ask for more time."

Court Reality

Only a court order sets a binding deadline. You can ask for more time in writing and say when you will reply, which puts your position on record. The joint guidelines also note that lawyers need time to take their own client's instructions before they reply. Rules and orders differ here: check whether the date comes from the letter or from your order.

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Published23 September 2026Last reviewed23 September 2026

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