UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
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Assumption: "(Solicitor Letters) If I ignore the letter, it can't be used against me."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People think saying nothing is the safe option.

Court Reality

In financial cases the court can order costs because of a party's conduct before or during proceedings (FPR r 28.3(6)). The court treats refusing openly to negotiate reasonably and responsibly as conduct it can take into account (PD 28A para 4.4). Silence can be presented as a refusal to engage.

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The Gap?

"(Solicitor Letters) If I ignore the letter, it can't be used against me."

Court Reality

In financial cases the court can order costs because of a party's conduct before or during proceedings (FPR r 28.3(6)). The court treats refusing openly to negotiate reasonably and responsibly as conduct it can take into account (PD 28A para 4.4). Silence can be presented as a refusal to engage.

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Published23 September 2026Last reviewed23 September 2026

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