Assumption: "Calling the police on the other parent shows the court I am taking my child's safety seriously."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
What People Expect
Parents sometimes believe that a strong protective response, including involving the police, will always be seen favourably by the court, especially where they already have concerns about the other parent.
Court Reality
The court looks at whether the response was proportionate to what was actually happening, not just whether it demonstrates concern. Calling the police in a situation that did not require it, especially where a phone call or message to the other parent would have resolved things, can be seen as disproportionate. Where a parent explains that they acted to protect themselves from allegations rather than to protect the child, the court can view that as self-serving rather than child-focused, and it can work against them rather than for them.
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The Gap?
"Calling the police on the other parent shows the court I am taking my child's safety seriously."
Court Reality
The court looks at whether the response was proportionate to what was actually happening, not just whether it demonstrates concern. Calling the police in a situation that did not require it, especially where a phone call or message to the other parent would have resolved things, can be seen as disproportionate. Where a parent explains that they acted to protect themselves from allegations rather than to protect the child, the court can view that as self-serving rather than child-focused, and it can work against them rather than for them.
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