Assumption: "If my child says they want to live somewhere else, the court will just make it happen."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
What People Expect
Parents sometimes treat a child's stated wish to change living arrangements as something that will be acted on directly, as if saying it settles the matter.
Court Reality
A child's wishes are one factor in the welfare checklist, weighed alongside others, including the likely effect on the child of any change to their circumstances. The court is required to consider the importance of stability, so a stated preference doesn't override the need to look at what disruption a change might actually cause.
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The Gap?
"If my child says they want to live somewhere else, the court will just make it happen."
Court Reality
A child's wishes are one factor in the welfare checklist, weighed alongside others, including the likely effect on the child of any change to their circumstances. The court is required to consider the importance of stability, so a stated preference doesn't override the need to look at what disruption a change might actually cause.
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