Assumption: "I can thank my McKenzie Friend publicly on social media using my real name — it's harmless and helps them get more clients."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
What People Expect
Posting a public thank-you to my McKenzie Friend using my real name is a kind, harmless gesture that supports their business and shows my appreciation.
Court Reality
Family court proceedings are often private and confidential. If you post about your case using your real name on social media, you risk identifying yourself as someone involved in family court — which can breach court reporting restrictions, expose your personal circumstances to the public, and prejudice ongoing proceedings. The risk is to you and your case — not your McKenzie Friend. Court orders can prohibit publishing information that could identify those involved, including children. If you want to show appreciation, do so privately, or keep names and any case details out of it entirely.
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"I can thank my McKenzie Friend publicly on social media using my real name — it's harmless and helps them get more clients."
Court Reality
Family court proceedings are often private and confidential. If you post about your case using your real name on social media, you risk identifying yourself as someone involved in family court — which can breach court reporting restrictions, expose your personal circumstances to the public, and prejudice ongoing proceedings. The risk is to you and your case — not your McKenzie Friend. Court orders can prohibit publishing information that could identify those involved, including children. If you want to show appreciation, do so privately, or keep names and any case details out of it entirely.
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