Assumption: "The children are old enough to pass on a message to my ex — is that okay?"
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
What People Expect
They're old enough to pass on a message. It's easier than dealing with my ex directly.
Court Reality
Using a child as a go-between — at any age — often puts them in the middle of adult conflict. Courts typically notice this, reflecting on co-parenting dynamics. It is commonly observed that better communication methods, like co-parenting apps or neutral third parties, exist.
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The Gap?
"The children are old enough to pass on a message to my ex — is that okay?"
Court Reality
Using a child as a go-between — at any age — often puts them in the middle of adult conflict. Courts typically notice this, reflecting on co-parenting dynamics. It is commonly observed that better communication methods, like co-parenting apps or neutral third parties, exist.
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