UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
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Assumption: "I know my situation better than my solicitor or McKenzie Friend — can I just take the bits of advice that feel right?"

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

I know my situation better than anyone. I'll take what I need from the advice and leave the rest.

Court Reality

While you know your situation, solicitors and McKenzie Friends bring valuable insights into what judges seek. Selectively following advice can inadvertently weaken your case. It’s important to consider the experience and guidance fully.

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The Gap?

"I know my situation better than my solicitor or McKenzie Friend — can I just take the bits of advice that feel right?"

Court Reality

While you know your situation, solicitors and McKenzie Friends bring valuable insights into what judges seek. Selectively following advice can inadvertently weaken your case. It’s important to consider the experience and guidance fully.

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Published12 June 2026Last reviewed31 August 2026

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