UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 120

Assumption: "My child is over 10 and wants 50/50 — but I know that isn't right for them. Will the court listen to me?"

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

I know my child better than anyone. I can explain to the court why 50/50 isn't right — they'll listen.

Court Reality

When a child over 10 expresses a desire for equal time, that preference carries weight. Judges typically require strong, evidence-based reasons to override it, rather than a parent's intuition. Being unprepared to address this directly might undermine your stance.

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The Gap?

"My child is over 10 and wants 50/50 — but I know that isn't right for them. Will the court listen to me?"

Court Reality

When a child over 10 expresses a desire for equal time, that preference carries weight. Judges typically require strong, evidence-based reasons to override it, rather than a parent's intuition. Being unprepared to address this directly might undermine your stance.

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Published12 June 2026Last reviewed31 August 2026

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