UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 102

Assumption: "I don't have to agree to anything. If they want to take the children on holiday they can ask and I'll just say no."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

Withholding consent for a child's holiday is a neutral act with no consequences for the refusing party.

Court Reality

Withholding consent may not be seen as neutral; courts often view parental responsibilities as prioritizing the child's best interests. Patterns of unreasonable refusal can affect future arrangements.

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The Gap?

"I don't have to agree to anything. If they want to take the children on holiday they can ask and I'll just say no."

Court Reality

Withholding consent may not be seen as neutral; courts often view parental responsibilities as prioritizing the child's best interests. Patterns of unreasonable refusal can affect future arrangements.

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Published4 June 2026Last reviewed31 August 2026

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