UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 101

Assumption: "They won't let me take the children on holiday. They're just doing it out of spite. There's nothing I can do."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

If the other parent refuses consent for a holiday, that refusal is final and there is no way to challenge it.

Court Reality

Unreasonable refusal of consent for a holiday can often be challenged. Courts may look into applications for specific issue orders under the Children Act 1989 s.8. It is commonly observed that these orders are granted when the refusal isn’t based on genuine welfare concerns.

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The Gap?

"They won't let me take the children on holiday. They're just doing it out of spite. There's nothing I can do."

Court Reality

Unreasonable refusal of consent for a holiday can often be challenged. Courts may look into applications for specific issue orders under the Children Act 1989 s.8. It is commonly observed that these orders are granted when the refusal isn’t based on genuine welfare concerns.

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Published4 June 2026Last reviewed31 August 2026

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