A pattern where one parent turns a child against the other — through criticism, limiting contact, or shaping the child's view — so the child becomes reluctant or hostile toward that parent. The court takes seriously any behaviour that harms a child's relationship with a parent, though the term itself is contested and courts focus on the specific behaviours and their impact.
In Plain English
When one parent tries to turn a child against the other parent by saying bad things or stopping them from seeing each other. The court looks closely at these behaviors to see if they are hurting the child's relationship with their other parent.
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A "gap" is a common assumption people hold going into family court, set against what the court actually does. The bold line below is the assumption — not a fact. The reality underneath is what the court typically observes.
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