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Family Court Reality (the gap) · 94

Assumption: "The other party did not ask me any questions at the FDR. That means nothing is expected of me in terms of negotiation."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

If the other party does not question you or engage at the FDR, there is no obligation to negotiate and the hearing can simply pass without any meaningful exchange.

Court Reality

Both parties are commonly expected to negotiate in good faith during the FDR. A lack of engagement from one party may invite scrutiny from the court, and that party risks potential costs orders. Ignorance of this obligation does not excuse non-participation.

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The Gap?

"The other party did not ask me any questions at the FDR. That means nothing is expected of me in terms of negotiation."

Court Reality

Both parties are commonly expected to negotiate in good faith during the FDR. A lack of engagement from one party may invite scrutiny from the court, and that party risks potential costs orders.

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Published3 June 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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