UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Family Court Reality (the gap) · 63

Assumption: "In the best interests of the child means what the child says they want."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

The best interests of the child test means the court will simply do whatever the child says they want.

Court Reality

The court’s determination of a child's best interests typically involves multiple factors, including the child's wishes, while retaining the authority to make the final decision.

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The Gap?

"In the best interests of the child means what the child says they want."

Court Reality

The court’s determination of a child's best interests typically involves multiple factors, including the child's wishes, while retaining the authority to make the final decision.

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Published31 May 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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