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Assumption: "A parent who has been abusive can be ordered to pay for contact sessions."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People assume the court can make either parent pay for contact arrangements.

Court Reality

There is a strong presumption against ordering a victim of domestic abuse to pay for contact between the child and the abusive parent. This is a presumption rather than an absolute rule, so the court decides funding on the facts of each case.

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The Gap?

"A parent who has been abusive can be ordered to pay for contact sessions."

Court Reality

There is a strong presumption against ordering a victim of domestic abuse to pay for contact between the child and the abusive parent.

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Published9 October 2026Last reviewed9 October 2026

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