Assumption: "Asking for more than I want gives me room to negotiate."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
What People Expect
Parents may open with an extreme proposal, expecting to settle somewhere in the middle.
Court Reality
The court reads your proposals as evidence of your motives. An extreme proposal, such as no contact for months, can make the court question whether you genuinely support the other parent's relationship with your child.
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The Gap?
"Asking for more than I want gives me room to negotiate."
Court Reality
The court reads your proposals as evidence of your motives. An extreme proposal, such as no contact for months, can make the court question whether you genuinely support the other parent's relationship with your child.
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