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Assumption: "(Child Arrangements) Being a good parent means I'll keep equal time."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People assume that if their parenting and care of the children is good, the arrangement can't be changed.

Court Reality

In a 2026 case, both parents were described as excellent and fully capable of meeting the children's needs. The arrangement still changed because the children were being emotionally harmed by the conflict between the parents.

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The Gap?

"(Child Arrangements) Being a good parent means I'll keep equal time."

Court Reality

In a 2026 case, both parents were described as excellent and fully capable of meeting the children's needs. The arrangement still changed because the children were being emotionally harmed by the conflict between the parents.

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Published26 September 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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