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Assumption: "(Domestic Abuse Findings) We have separated, so the abuse cannot happen again and contact is safe."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People think the end of the relationship removes the risk.

Court Reality

Under Practice Direction 12J, the court must be satisfied that the child and the parent they live with can be kept physically and emotionally safe before, during and after contact. In a 2026 case, the judge was not persuaded the case law treats the end of a relationship as necessarily protective.

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The Gap?

"(Domestic Abuse Findings) We have separated, so the abuse cannot happen again and contact is safe."

Court Reality

Under Practice Direction 12J, the court must be satisfied that the child and the parent they live with can be kept physically and emotionally safe before, during and after contact.

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Published24 September 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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