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Assumption: "Costs orders are exceptionally rare in financial remedy, so how I negotiate doesn't really matter."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

People rely on the general no-order-as-to-costs principle in family proceedings and assume it applies without exception to financial remedy negotiations too.

Court Reality

In financial remedy specifically, the rules allow a costs order where a party fails to negotiate openly and reasonably in the period after the FDR. This is a real and used exception, not a technicality. Refusing reasonable open offers, or digging in without engagement, carries genuine costs risk even though the general starting point is no order as to costs.

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The Gap?

"Costs orders are exceptionally rare in financial remedy, so how I negotiate doesn't really matter."

Court Reality

In financial remedy specifically, the rules allow a costs order where a party fails to negotiate openly and reasonably in the period after the FDR. This is a real and used exception, not a technicality.

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Published28 August 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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