UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
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Assumption: "Mediation is something I can use as leverage, or ignore, with no consequences either way."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

Litigants sometimes treat mediation as a tool to control the other party, either threatening it to pressure them or refusing to engage without expecting any downside.

Court Reality

Since April 2024, parties are under a strengthened duty to consider non-court dispute resolution at every stage. The court can adjourn proceedings to allow it, and a party who won't engage without good reason risks a costs order. It cuts both ways.

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Community · C-2026-002

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"Mediation is something I can use as leverage, or ignore, with no consequences either way."

Court Reality

Since April 2024, parties are under a strengthened duty to consider non-court dispute resolution at every stage. The court can adjourn proceedings to allow it, and a party who won't engage without good reason risks a costs order.

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Published28 August 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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