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Assumption: "I don't need to look at a draft order the other party's barrister drafts, as it will always be an accurate reflection of what happened in the hearing."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

An order drafted by the other side can be accepted without checking.

Court Reality

A draft order reflects the other party's understanding of what was decided — which is not always the same as what the court intended. Wording, omissions, or added obligations can change what the order requires once it is sealed. Orders should be checked carefully before agreement, because corrections after sealing are far harder to achieve.

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"I don't need to look at a draft order the other party's barrister drafts, as it will always be an accurate reflection of what happened in the hearing."

Court Reality

A draft order reflects the other party's understanding of what was decided — which is not always the same as what the court intended. Wording, omissions, or added obligations can change what the order requires once it is sealed.

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Published8 August 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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