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Assumption: "I've waited long enough, so the court has to give me contact now."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

The passage of time proves the risk has reduced and the court should resume contact.

Court Reality

Time alone does not repair risk. The court needs to see accountability, insight, and genuine change. Love for your child is not enough. The court needs to see that you understand what went wrong.

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The Gap?

"I've waited long enough, so the court has to give me contact now."

Court Reality

Time alone does not repair risk. The court needs to see accountability, insight, and genuine change. Love for your child is not enough. The court needs to see that you understand what went wrong.

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Published20 July 2026Last reviewed8 October 2026

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