Assumption: "The court is a neutral space — once we separate, he has no power over me there."
1 min readThis content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.
What People Expect
Litigants believe that the family court is a level playing field where an abusive ex-partner loses their power.
Court Reality
For many perpetrators, separation moves the abuse into the courtroom — repeated applications, delays, and forced interaction are all tools of continued control. But knowing this is power. When you understand the tactics, you can document them, name them, and respond strategically rather than reactively. 💡 A McKenzie Friend can help you prepare, keep focus on what the court needs to see, and support you through the process. For legal advice on protective measures, speak to a solicitor.
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The Gap?
"The court is a neutral space — once we separate, he has no power over me there."
Court Reality
For many perpetrators, separation moves the abuse into the courtroom — repeated applications, delays, and forced interaction are all tools of continued control. But knowing this is power.
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