UK Family Court·Insights for litigants in person
Gap 318

Assumption: "Holding out for my own preferred contact centre, even without a clear reason, is reasonable caution."

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This content reflects observational insights and lived community experiences. It does not constitute legal advice — always consult a qualified professional for your specific circumstances.

What People Expect

A parent may see holding out for their own preferred contact centre or arrangement, even without a clear reason, as reasonable caution rather than something that could count against them.

Court Reality

Insisting on a less practical option over a more sensible one, with no coherent explanation for the choice, can be read by the court as obstruction rather than legitimate caution, and can work against the parent making that choice.

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The Gap?

"Holding out for my own preferred contact centre, even without a clear reason, is reasonable caution."

Court Reality

Insisting on a less practical option over a more sensible one, with no coherent explanation for the choice, can be read by the court as obstruction rather than legitimate caution, and can work against the parent making that choice.

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Published22 September 2026Last reviewed22 September 2026

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