One of the three principles of fairness in financial remedy cases (alongside needs and compensation). 'Sharing' reflects that assets built up during the marriage — especially the family home and pensions — are generally divided between the parties, though not always equally, and needs comes first.
In Plain English
The idea that assets built up during a marriage, like the family home, should generally be split between both partners. However, the court will always look at everyone's basic needs first.
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A "gap" is a common assumption people hold going into family court, set against what the court actually does. The bold line below is the assumption — not a fact. The reality underneath is what the court typically observes.
Gap #42
The assumption
I disclosed my bank statements. The judge will see them at the hearing.
The reality
Disclosure and the hearing bundle are separate things. Disclosure means sharing documents with the other party. The hearing bundle — governed by Practice Direction 27A — is what the judge actually reviews. Documents you disclose are not automatically in the bundle; they must be specifically included and agreed.
Gap #95
The assumption
I gave up work and ran the home. That is a contribution. The court will treat it as 50/50.
The reality
While non-financial contributions are recognised, equal sharing is not guaranteed. Courts often apply a needs-first approach, prioritising needs before any principle of sharing. Short marriage alone does not settle the question. In Sharp v Sharp [2017] EWCA Civ 408, the Court of Appeal departed from equal sharing in a short, childless marriage where the couple had dual careers and kept separate finances. But in E v L [2021] EWFC 60, Mr Justice Mostyn held that childlessness should not by itself count against equal sharing, warning that treating it as automatic risks unconscious discrimination between parents and non-parents. What matters is the combination of factors present in the case, not marriage length taken in isolation.
Gap #109
The assumption
Everything we built together during the marriage should be split equally. That's what the law says.
The reality
Equal sharing is often a principle, but not a guarantee. Courts typically consider various factors, including needs and contributions, especially in shorter marriages, where needs may take precedence.
Gap #135
The assumption
I’m getting half his pension — I can use it to buy a house.
The reality
A pension sharing order moves funds into a pension pot in your name; it is not cash for your bank account. You generally cannot access this money until at least 55 (rising to 57). Even then, only around 25% is usually tax‑free, with the rest taxed as income, reducing what’s available. If you need cash now, you may ‘offset’ the pension, keeping more of the property instead.
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